Shall and Will:
is an assumption while Will is a conclusion. When people use the word
shall, it simply means they are not sure. It also means they might do
it, go there, eat it,etc., or might not ........ (they're confused).
When people use the word 'will', it means they're not confused on what they 'want'.
Networking is not all about recruiting people, that's why many people fail in the industry after recruiting dormant people. The profit of networking is in recruiting active people (people with the burning zeal to do the business should be your primary targets).
In our boutique, after making our customers accept what we want, some of them do return the clad they bought and say "na you chose am for me." Same thing is applicable in relationship: if your paramour don't know what they want it means they're still confused; & you've 90% certainty that your relationship will end up in begrudge.
I can admonish my daughter to date and marry a man who obviously knows what he want in life even if he's poor for the time being, but i can never advocate her to date a confused man whether rich or poor (a man who can't tell 'want' from 'need' still have a long way to go).
Another Example of Want:
I need six cute cars, but what i want is a house. Why do i want a house when all my mates are driving the latest cars?
My neighbor in business said he was making fortune selling shoes until Buhari tenor closed the shoe door with high exchange rate and today he's regretting it because he misused that opportunity.
A senor policeman said he was earning 50,000 daily because he's among governor(s) entourage then, & he spent his opportunity on what people'll say. Today he's regretting it because all those ladies and spas no longer recognize him as customer while his children are asking where were you when that your friend was building his future?
The main reason why the prodigal son in the BIBLE failed after collecting half of his father's fortune is because he couldn't differentiate 'want' from 'need'.
No matter how much you give a confused man: he will squander it and become as poor as before because if you've trillion, and keep splurging it, without having multiple source of income to be putting what you're spending back; within a short time you will go broke since you don't have money generator that's regenerating money for you.
Another Example Of Want and Need:
If you don't know what you want, people who knew what they want will control your life with what they want.
Before you start anything, first ask yourself - what do i want from this thing? Knowing your want will make the work easier for you, the journey safer for you.
As a family man don't ever depend on one source of income because it's not how much you have but how much you've achieved.
Open six different bank accounts and name them:
- Family expenses account
- My personal expenses account
- Charity account
- Relative expenses account
- Wife account
- My kids account
After opening them what next? Set up investment for each and link them to each accounts (make sure that all the money those investment generates enter separate account depending on the name you give them).
- Family account is to settle all family current and future expenses.
- Your personal account should be used for your own expenses and future investments
account: anytime you want to give to church, community or help anybody
outside your family/relative perhaps friends; just go to your charity
account, a certain man once said before you offer your old classmate
financial help first look back into the type of life he or she lived in
school. If he or she is still in the state of confusion, i absolutely
doubt if financial help is what he/she actually want (financial help
can't be of help in their state of confusion). Giving a confused man
money, it's like leaving your home and aimlessly commence to gallivant
everywhere without knowing your last bus stop (destination).
account is for helping your immediate family members such as brothers,
sisters and parents including your in-laws (wife siblings).
- Wife account is for taking good care of the woman that gave you the privilege to become a father.
- Children account is for everything pertaining to your biological kids school fee and future.
"I have never met a RICH Person who has never Lost Money, but i have met a lot of POOR People who has never Lost A Dime." - Robert Kiyosaki
"The primary difference between the RICH & the POOR is how they Handle FEAR in Investment." - Robert Kiyosaki
Have positive mindset about investment. No Pain no Gain. You can NEVER be Rich if you are too SCARED of losing Money.
SALARY alone can not solve your money problems. You must have Secondary Source of Income in order to balance the equation.
SALARY is the MEDICINE for managing POVERTY, it doesn't CURE it. Only your BUSINESS or INVESTMENT Cure Poverty.
I learnt website development and digital marketing (internet marketing) with certificate from Datalex Nigeria Limited and it took me almost 8 months to bring aimeagles.com to this level because when i installed plugins everything scattered, which led me into starting afresh over & over, until i learnt my lesson from my mistakes, that before implanting plugins i must first back up all my aimeagles.com files somewhere else. Once you accomplish your Wants your Needs will automatically fall in place, but if you first achieve your needs in a short time you'll start from square one (level one) and starting afresh is not an easy task because it's like starting from primary one after graduating from university.
My school teacher told us his life story and he said he was a very successful businessman who based in Jos: one day he went to market to buy goods, when he returned his shop has been burnt, since his shop wasn't insured and he has invested all he had in that shop except his school certificates; he malignantly left jos and ended up as a high school commerce teacher, but had it been he has back up investments he'd still be in business because he won't start all over again.
My dad did same mistake, but the worst thing that can happen to anyone in life is to suffer the same things your parents suffered because no mistake no correction.
Any day you wake up always ask yourself, what do i 'want' to achieve today, this week, this month, this year and not what do i 'need' to achieve ..........???
Join our team now, lets enlist you build a back up business for you and your family. Fools ponder today and now while wise people cogitate about the future, imagine your life and family 10years from now.
In the BIBLE, the story of ten virgins: 5 were wise because they planned ahead (they knew what they want) while 5 were foolish because the credo in their ego were based on "tomorrow will take care of itself"; forgetting that, "them that fail to plan - plan to fail"!
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