How heavy is this glass of water? The answer will surprise you.
A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired; "How heavy is this glass of water?"
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."
She continued, "The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything."
Remember to put the glass down. Learn to always think less of your problems because what emote you either motivate you or victimize you by manifesting itself more in your life i.e why most times you see yourself dreaming of your deepest thoughts while catnapping. "What defiles a man is not what goes out, but what goes in."
Living without cogitating your problems will exorbitantly enlist you to move on and imperatively achieve things you never pondered you'd achieve.
Whenever i put my hope deeply in anything: i do get dejected in that thing but once i free myself from it as if nothing happened/happening; at that point, i commence to see myself achieving them i.e my aspirations (hope) start to pursue me even without me chasing them again.
GOD uses it to teach me not to put my hope on anything or anyone but to only rely on HIM. Most times tying all your hopes to something or someone doesn't make things work but only put you in dismay.
In every nonSENse there's 'sense', but ignorant is blind. So, take your failure (problem) to be the none and then think, & focus on the SENSE because there's no market with a way in without a way out.
Always remember, "If there's will - there is way."